My child doesn't listen – Why is that?\r

Attention: Many toddlers love being the center of attention. Occasionally the little ones deliberately do forbidden things. A negative reaction is sometimes better than no reaction at all.\r

Power struggle: Children learn boundaries by repeatedly testing how far they can go.\r

Inconsistency: As hard as it is – consistency is important so your child learns that you take your instructions seriously. If you give in at the end, your child learns that refusing will work.\r

Curiosity: Sometimes children deliberately don't follow rules to see what happens. Testing their parents' reaction often becomes a game.\r

What can parents do?\r

When children are disobedient, it's not easy to react correctly. Here you will find some tips on how to act in situations where your child doesn't listen:\r

Stay calm: If you are too forceful, your child will also react with stress.\r

Be consistent – but also be open about mistakes.\r

Be understanding: The daily power struggle is an important developmental process for your child. With this insight, you can face some situations more calmly.\r

Be patient: Give your child time to respond and to get used to rules. Rituals make it easier for your child to follow family rules.\r

Praise: Sincere praise reinforces your child's behavior and gives them self-confidence.

Image credits

Father with three young daughters playing together at home © Halfpoint - stock.adobe.com