My child doesn't listen – Why is that?
Attention: Many toddlers love being the center of attention. In doing so, the little ones occasionally deliberately engage in forbidden actions. Because a negative reaction is sometimes better than none at all.
Power struggle: Children learn about limits by repeatedly testing how far they can go.
Inconsistency: As hard as it is – consistency is important so that your child learns you mean your instructions. If you give in in the end, your child learns that they can get away with refusing.
Curiosity: Sometimes children deliberately don't follow rules to see what happens. Testing their parents' reaction often becomes a game.
What can parents do?
When children are disobedient, it's not easy to react correctly. Here you'll find some tips on how to act in situations where your child doesn't listen:
Stay calm: If you are too forceful, your child will also react with stress.
Be consistent – but also be open about mistakes.
Be understanding: The daily power struggle is an important developmental process for your child. With this insight, you can face some situations more calmly.
Be patient: Give your child time to react and to get used to rules. Rituals make it easier for your child to follow family rules.
Praise: A sincere praise reinforces your child in their behavior and gives them self-confidence.
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